Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Growing Pains


In Mexico, one can nearly sit and watch things grow. A wonderful example of this is the almond tree in our front yard which is only 14 months old, yet it is 10 inches thick and producing fruit. A papaya tree produces fruit only 4 months after it has been planted. This is an amazing place where any indigenous seed could be a tree only months later, but all of this beauty has a price…

Tropical places have more than just beautiful plant life. For one, the tropics are warm. Really warm. Eighty to 100ish degrees warm. I know what many of you are thinking; you’re thinking that 80 degrees doesn’t sound so bad, and you would be right. But let’s remember that we’re still in the tropics, so that 80 degrees is coupled with 70 to 95 percent humidity. This means that even if you are sitting and watching the trees grow, you will still be producing streams of sweat that will be running off your exhausted body. I feel I’ve been adapting quite well, but my wonderful wife, Bri, has been feeling very wiped out, overheated, and dehydrated for much of our time here. She’s getting used to the climate, but it’s just taking her a bit longer.

Then there’s the bug diversity. For the most part, I like bugs; they have a purpose, a job to do, and they do it well. We’ve been watching a lot of National Geographic Live in our house. One day it’s a hoard of ants dragging a cockroach up our wall. The next day we’ll stare at the geckoes fighting over a moth next to the light bulb until we experience nighttime blindness. All of this is great fun, but then there are those other “bugs”. I don’t believe that mosquitoes have a classic function like bugs do, and I mostly refuse to believe that they are bugs at all. No, mosquitoes are actually the spawn of Satan, a horrible blight on humanity, and yes, I wish all of them a slow and agonizing death by magnifying glass.

Outside of the climate related issues there are so many other things that can easily break a person down. I won’t likely ever enjoy the town’s loudspeakers that advertise various things, in the most obnoxious voice you can image, at 6 am, 10:30 pm and anytime in between, but I am finally past being upset about it. It is what it is. These are just people trying to make a living for their families; unfortunately they are making that living at about 100 decibels as telemarketers that you can’t hang-up on. I wish I was joking, but the dog howls in agony from his auditory beating every time the woman starts screaming into the microphone.

Speaking of the completely undisciplined dogs, yes, they do bark in the middle of the night for hours without ceasing. These dogs do, however, bark for a reason. Sometimes they bark because they see a stranger walking into a house that’s several blocks away from their own domain. At this point they alert the entire dog community that this person had the audacity to walk into his own home. They may have also just spotted a particularly menacing grasshopper, or perhaps even their own tails have caught their attention. You never know which life threatening situation might set them off, but I can tell you that a slingshot is an incredible training tool. Animal cookies are given for good behaviors, and rocks at high speeds are given for undesirable behaviors, and I have to say… it’s working beautifully.

Everything in this place takes much longer than it would in the States, and yet, we actually have more time than we used to. Our classes oftentimes make us wonder why on earth we are here in the first place, but then our quiz and test scores come in smelling like roses. Well ok, mine come in smelling a bit like roses that need their water changed, but there is still a sweetness about it.


All of this to say, things grow well in places like Mexico. If one is not careful, weeds can easily grow just as well as delicious fruit. This is a simple, age-old parallel to our own lives. I could, with the greatest of ease, grow malice in my heart toward my many dislikes in life or I can grow character. That brings us back to those horrible mosquitoes. Please understand me when I say this - I HATE MOSQUITOES with every morsel of my being, but (I will surely regret saying this) they do serve a purpose. These pests, like all pests, give way to opportunity, opportunity to develop my patience, increase my tolerance to the uncomfortable, and form me, sometimes violently, into the character of Christ. I will never tell you that I enjoy the process, but much like those test scores, I rather like the outcome. 

Sunday, October 13, 2013

This is the day that the Lord has made! Let us rejoice and be glad in it!

A few of the many things we are thankful for…



1.       An effective, efficient water filter and inexpensive jugs of filtered water
2.       Fresh, local, free-range chicken for 50 pesos per kilo which is around $1.50USD per pound
3.       Amazing Spanish instructors who love the Lord, put up with our American sarcasm, and are excellent teachers
4.       New friends who are quickly becoming a family
5.       A mosquito net over our bed that keeps the majority of mosquitoes and spiders out (and so far keeps all scorpions out)
6.       A spinner that gets out most of the water from the laundry we wash by hand
7.       An internet connection. It may be off and on at times, but we are so thankful to have the ability to stay connected with our friends and families at home
8.       Lots of fresh, exotic fruits. Many that we had never heard of before
9.       The finances and freedom to be here, studying Spanish
10.   The friendly, welcoming nature of Oaxacans here in Cacalote
11.   Our nephew, Austin, will arrive next week!
12.   A wonderful care package from Bri’s mom
13.   The recent marriage of Bri’s beloved sister
14.   Our Friday night Bible study with fellow Spanish students
15.   Moments of God revealing Himself to us in His creation  - breathtaking sunrises, cacophonies of birds, coconut trees on every corner, fireflies at night
16.   A greater understanding of Spanish each and every day
17.   A beloved couple expecting their first baby!
18.   Toasted coconut tostadas. Mmmmm…
19.   Two ceiling fans and a box fan! Thank You, Lord for a little relief from the humidity!
20. Two bicycles!

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Corn syrup for babies!

The idea of the weak and poor being preyed upon is as old as dirt, I suppose. This hit home for us recently as we perused a local grocery store. We came upon a bottle of Karo corn syrup. It was labeled as baby food and promised to aid in easy digestion. The back of the bottle gave directions for how to properly mix it in your baby’s bottle.  This is appalling. An American based company, preying upon mothers who don’t know the difference. I’m sure the people who buy this product (and similar products) are buying it with good intentions. With the thought, “this will help my baby grow.” And I’m sure the companies selling the products are doing whatever they can to make another penny.

I saw this in Africa, as well. Infant formula companies advertising to African mothers, convincing them store-bought formula was better for their babies than mother’s milk. As a result, many mothers stopped breastfeeding and began feeding their infants formula. However, formula is expensive and they couldn't afford to give their babies the recommended amount. They started adding more water than the direction called for. Meanwhile, infant formula companies were making more and more money while more and more African babies suffered from malnutrition.

These things are mild compared to many other injustices in our world. War ravaged lands. Child slaves. Abused women. Starving people groups. And the list goes on.

These examples serve as reminders to us about a few things. First, they remind us that we live in a corrupt, often unjust world. However, the Bible tells us that our struggles are not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places (check out Ephesians 6). It can be difficult (but important) to remember, that our enemy is not the president of a corrupt government, our enemy is not the CEO of Monsanto, and our enemy is not the rich man who exploits the poor. Satan is our enemy.

Second, these examples remind us that our God is bigger. God looks down from heaven and He sees everything that goes on. But vengeance belongs to Him and in His timing. It’s not our job. In the finiteness (is that a word?) of my being I can cry out and say, “Lord, why don’t you do something now? Why do you wait?” But who am I? I am made out of mere dust. Will I offer advice to the Creator of the Universe? I strongly believe that He is not ignoring pain and suffering and injustice in the world. Just because I do not see or understand His answer, does not mean that He is not answering.

Lastly, all of this reminds us how this life is temporary. In light of eternity, even the worst that could happen to us on earth, will fade away in light of God’s glory. One day there will be a new heaven and a new earth. Revelation 21:3-4 “…Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”

While we anxiously wait for that day to arrive, I do not believe we’re supposed to have an apathetic attitude towards injustice and suffering in the world. God calls us to defend the helpless, to aid the orphans and widows, to give to those in need, etc. But when it seems as though the world is in a downward spiral, with evil increasing daily, remember these truths. Our hope comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. What a dying, hurting world needs is to know the love of Jesus so they too can have every tear wiped away one day.